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My name is Julia

things change. sometimes for the better and sometimes for the worst. that's how life is. i'm almost 16 and i make mistakes just like any other person. i'm far from perfect. i love to act, sing, dance and do anything involved with the arts. i really want to learn to play the guitar and i plan to learn. i play tennis but it's only to pass the time. i write poetry and lately i've been reading alot. i'm really goofy and i like to make people smile and i love to laugh. i don't trust that easily and i love even lighter. i don't believe that anyone is better than anyone. i've been going through a tough time lately and i've been confused about alot. i have my best friends and besides them i don't care what other people think. i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him. we can get through anything. i don't hate. sometimes love. and always smile. don't judge me before you get to know me. i'm loud and will make you laugh.

I also love to give and get advice. I believe that people should come together and help you to get by. But always remmeber, advice is help. You are the only one that can make a final desision. I would love to help you with anything as long as you respect me and I'll return the same respect.

advice

15/f

Okay. So here's the very long deal. I will try to summarize this. It could really have an impact on my life.

I've known this guy online for a year. I dunno if you read my question ...but I asked about a guy I was obsessed with online.

Anyway. I knew him for a year and I met him online. I never really liked him, but having no friends, I just talked to him and became very personal with him. He had another gf online, and now they're meeting up. I really don't care for him anymore. He doesn't mean anything to me. Of course, that feeling of "fondness" still exists, but not enough to propel me to want to meet this guy or anything. Honestly, he creeps me out. He's dirty, disgusting, ugly (shallow, I know.) and he's just so ew..He has a horrible personality. I'm through with him

Today, I deleted everywhere that I had him. Like myspace, MSN, aim etc. I was SICK of him and his stupid lies/ trying to make me jealous. Plus, I'm only a 15 year old girl! I now have more friends, school is more important to me, and I'll try to get over him..

Please...PLEASE somebody give me a pep talk...to keep me away from him. I can't tell you how many times I've UNdeleted him and continued to talk to him, being so attached. Please...words of encouragement to keep me away from a possible online predator who I know NOTHING about? :(

I'm not going to repremand you or anything. I'm just here to help you.

You should never talk to someone online that you don't know. They could be faking it and like...all their information could be unreal and not true. Talking to people online is really really dangerous.

But here's the real deal. You need to get him off your mind. You can't keep talking to him becuase it's gonig to drive you crazy. Ignoring someone you care/cared about is really really hard and needs alot of support and help from friends. You just need to tell yourself that you CAN do it and that you DONT NEED him to make you a better person.

Jelously is the devil. haha. No really, wanting something that you can't have sucks. Bad. but i'm sure that if you ignore him (which won't be easy) you'll move on. Then you can find someone who you actually know exists. hehe! =0]

But in the mean time, stay strong. you'll get through. AND BE CAREFUL WHO YOU MEET ONLINE!

I hope everything works out. Keep me posted. Contact info can be found on my Column!!!

Signed,
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(Rating: 5) Thanks for your advice...I know...It definitely isn't right to meet people online. It's wrong and awful. So this was helpful..I'll definitely keep you posted, but so far...nothing's happening :D
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