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Q: 13/f ~ Much help needed

Ok, so my best guy friend and I have gotten together 2 days ago. He was always kinda shy even when we were just friends, but when we IM each other its like we can talk about anything, ever since we got together we have been talking for almost 3 hours, on AIM, but we don't seem to have that kind of convo in person. What kind of topic starters could we talk about in person.

Secondly,
He is shy but I want to hold his hand or hug him so much, (I am not really wanting to kiss him until we can have a good convo in person.) but I don't know if I should make the first move or if I should wait for him, should I say something about it on AIM, or not? Help please!
Well,,this is definetly typical..at least thats what Ive heard,and if the guys shy,Maybe youre the one having to make the first move.And on AIM you should ask him if he feels uncomfortable with things like that.And then ask him if he feels uncomfortable talking to you in person because you guys just started going out.And if he never talks to you in person..try starting the conversasion.He prolly wants to talk to you..he just doesnt wanna mess up and say some embarrassing thing and make you hate him or something.And dont think of him not talking to you that much in person of him being ashamed of you or something stupid like that...He prolly REALLY likes you,and like I said..he just doesnt know what to say.
And sorry I really dont have any good conversation starters..besides asking how his day was,,and 'what's up.'
Sorry I dont have anything really that clever about starting a conversation.:[[
Lol.
Have a great day..
And GOOD LUCK.:]]


:]]PEACE.

Thanks a bunch!

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I wish to help you with things..I hope I give good advice.
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