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Q: Okay there is this guy that i have liked since like 7th grade and one of my best friends has none this. She started liking him too.. (i doubt it.) And he started liking her.

Now im not trying to be a catty, jealous, caniving bitch, but i mean im the one who got them together because i was being the "good friend". And honestly i dont mind that they are going out.

But she treats him poorly and he knows it. EVERYONE DOES. Shes always with other guys. I just dont think its acceptable. And here i am watching all this. I am wondering .. is she just going out with him because i like him? And i just dont know why she would treat him poorly...when he is the greatest guy in the world and it makes me feel bad because im the one that helped them get together..but he still seems happy and i know i would treat him better... So what do i do?


oh and sorry..its so long. But i think the guy knows that i like him. Is it wrong that i like him and that is my friends bf? im so confused. :[

ill rt.
I think you should talk to her about how she's getting a reputation- then you sound like you're really worried about her.

Since you liked him before, it's not wrong to like him at all as long as you don't try to act upon it. xxx

thanks.

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RachyPie
I'm 17, doing my second year of A levels now... I guess that I've seen or experienced most "teenage dramas" (urgh, patronising term) so whatever you want, just ask... I can be incredibly honest (to the point of bluntness) with my advice, but sometimes that's what people need...

Hope I can help! xxx

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