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18 Male
Hi there is this one girl that I really like. I mean we talk and stuff and usually play sports together. She is really competitive and so am I so we basically take it out on each other. Like I said I really care about her but the problem is she doesn't just flirt with me she acts like a playerette and messes with like every guy. Any tips to give me the competitive edge and also what are some good date ideas for the two of us. (link)
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Hows it going? :)
If you play a game with her..dont let her win. this will make her happier she beat you :P
Then if YOU beat her...dont BRAG but tease her about it..and say that youll have to have a rematch sometime so you can kick her ass..or she could ATTEMPT to kick yours.
..or alternatively if she still beats you without you letting her (haha) then still insist on a rematch and say that you wont let her kick your ass again and youll attampt to kick hers ( and dont give up until you win!) :)
If she's easily offeded dont sound rude when you say it..just try to laugh or say it with a smile on your face!
Right,,the messing around with guys bit..I THINK is to get you wound up and concerned ..and it looks like its worked :(
if she does this INFRONT of you..after you telling her you like her..she must feel SOMETHING back.
If not and she is doing this as a nasty act I'd rethink about the girl.
However, if shes continuing to play sports or games with you..i doubt that alot :)
i dont know what you do play but it could be as simple as going to the park together and secretly taking a rugby ball and ask her if she wants a match and plunge into a game.
if you hit it off, suggest that you two should take a night off being competitive , or take a night off "you beating me" and go to the movies where the only thing thats ok for her to win is her choice of movie!
In the meanwhile, if youre concerned about other guys, try to engage her in converstation (with substance), catch her eye and smile randomly, try to make her laugh :). Hopefully this sould makke you seem more interesting than the others, and youll be ahead in the game!
Compliments are where it's at if you know she'll apprriciate them. comment on what shes wearing,ask her if shes done something different to her appearence, then continue to respond (if she asks why) with something like " oh i dunno then, its just..you seem to have more of a glow today than usual :)"
try not to sound corny when you say it.say it casually (casual as in if you were re-assuring you mum her new haorcut is fine lol) ..but smile when you say it! :)
I wish you luck, keep me updated!
after all, I'm here to help!
Alex :)
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