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Q: Okay I have been dating the same guy for 1 year & 3 months. I'm 18 & he is 20. We didn't have sex until 1 day after our 8 month anniversary. When we have sex he always aims to go for my butt instead of the other. Not only that but he always talks baby talk, I mean I know it may be our thing but whatever. If you really think about it at our age thats just weird. Okay here is the thing. It has been 2 almost 3 months since the last time we have had sex the right way. I bug him about it every now & then but not until it really bugs me. Well he had spent the night the other night after he had got off work, his parents were out of town so thats the only way he could stay the night, which is odd, because he is 20 but he still lives at home & doesn't plan on getting married anytime soon. Or moving out of his parents house. Anyhow. The morning after he had stayed the night nothing happened, I mean no kisses no touching nothing. So the next morning I asked him what was wrong & why doesn't he want to have sex with me, & he said sex isn't ever on his mind & it doesn't thrill him like it does other people or me. I barely get kisses. He doesn't even touch me anymore. He won't give me any explanation of why he seriously doesn't wanna touch or have sex with me which kind of makes me think hes gay, but anyways, if anyone knows how I can deal with this or if its even normal for a guy not to want to have sex with someone he says hes in love with. Please give me advice as soon as you can, I will greatly appreciate it.
Signed- Confused one.
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This must be an awful situation to be in!
It sounds to me (maybe not to other people) as though he is gay, but maybe too scared about what family/friends/society will think to go and experiment with his sexuality?
I think you need to talk to him, and tell him your worries over his sexuality (assuring him that there's nothing wrong with being gay) and the fact that his behaviour makes you feel really unwanted.
Only you two can work this out... That's the only advice I can give you, sorry...
Good luck. xxx
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I'm 17, doing my second year of A levels now... I guess that I've seen or experienced most "teenage dramas" (urgh, patronising term) so whatever you want, just ask... I can be incredibly honest (to the point of bluntness) with my advice, but sometimes that's what people need...
Hope I can help! xxx
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Kent, UK Occupation: Student Age: 17 Member Since: September 9, 2007 Answers: 55 Last Update: November 19, 2007 Visitors: 3843
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