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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
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Well everyone in my grade goes to all the school games and stuff, the problem is I dont and I want to be involved in that kind of stuff. Except the problem is that my enemie usuallly goes and I don't want drama. And she turned a lot of people againest me last year for no reason. What can I do to be more involved and get popular!
Woah, haha, I just had that issue last night.
There was a football game at my highschool & I went with about fifteen of my close friends, but then about ten of my ex-friends went to (The stuff your enemies did to you, that`s what these people did to me, so I know how you feel). If we saw them, we just turned around & walked in the other direction & they didn`t bother us at all. Sure, they might have been talking about us the whole time we were there, but at least we were having more fun than them.
She turned everyone against you cause she thought it would make HER more popular. Eventually though, she`ll get what she deserves -- what goes around comes around. =]
If you see her, just smile & keep walking past her. If she says something mean to you just keep smiling & say, "Sorry, I gotta go look for someone." & walk off. Most of the time if she says something mean, it`s cause she thinks it`ll make her friends think she`s cool or something & she`s just trying to piss you off. So basically, ignore it & pleeeeeease don`t let it get to you. Just know that she`s the pathetic one, not you, & walk away.
Just try and find some people who are your real friends. If any of your friend`s friends are going, most of the time, they`ll welcome you to be their friend. & then just keep building from their friends & trust me, by the end of this year, you`ll have at least twenty people who you can honestly say are your true friends.
Good luck! =]
(Rating: 5) thanks,
awesome advice!