okayy i really need advice asap. okay so theres this girl who now goes to my school this year & shes a sweetheart and were friends. Were not like super close but i love her to death. So theres this guy at my school that is just gorgeous & i really like him. We hung out and all that & i really connected with him. Well when i came home i found out that the girl that i'm friends with went out with him for about a year off and on. She was upset with me and cried so muchh. Like she told me she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore cause it hurts her too much and she thinks i don't care about her. i talked to her and all that but she decided not to be friends. When one of my friends get mad at me, like everyone does and i'm so scared of that. I know your gonna say well then their not real friends but idk, just bare with me lol. anyways - Well the guy i like says he really likes me & don't even like his ex girlfriend anymore but shes still head over heels for him. I offered to stop talking to him and shes like NOO i don't wanna make your life shitty, please just get to know him & leave me out of it. I really don't know what to do. When i hung out with him the other dayy, i didn't wanna leave. Hes so cute & sweet and ahh i just like him alott. So what do i do? The girl i was friends with said shed get overr it eventually but i don't want the whole world hateing me because of this. For one its not their business and two, i can't stop who i likee even when i didn't know they datedd. i'm so shooken up over this situation. My best friend is also friends with this girl and i'm so afraid she`ll turn on me after she said she really wouldn't. I'm so scared. And i feel so bad that i did this to the girl but i don't know what to do. should i stop talking to him? should i just let her get used to it, or get over it ? Just give me advice on what you would do if you were in my place. thnk you so much.
Ok, first off of, yes... I am going to tell you that if someone would do that and just stop being your friend over you liking her EX boyfriend, even after you offered not to see him anymore, SHE ISN'T YOUR FRIEND. She says you don't care about her, yet... how much can she really care about you if she dosen't want you happy? You obviously care about her enough to consider her feelings. This really is HER problem at this point, not yours.
There is a reason for saying she isnt really a friend in the first place, its TRUE.
Honestly, if I were you, I would stay with the guy and stop worrying about what she thinks. You gave her a chance to tell you not to do it, and she didn't. So... go for it. Its up to her to deal with it. You deserve to happy and who is she to tell you otherwise? Ya know?
I think you have been MORE THAN considerate in this situation, and I don't think you need to worry. You will find better friends if this one don't come around. Just hang in there. And, in the meantime, make yourself happy. Hang on to this guy! You will be glad you did!
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