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they would call me sarah, but it seems that people are afraid to address me by my name. i am a senior. i dislike a lot of things. i enjoy a nice hot medium mocha latte and smoke too many cigarettes for my own good. i have been in love. i love lights and colors. i am above the influence.advice
Okay so I'm going to take a crack at this advice thing. I'm female.
I want to know what the heck is wrong with me. I dont think I am completely ugly and I even lost weight thinking that if I did that then maybe someone would be interested in me. I'm getting older and I am in high school. I've never even been asked out/ been liked.
Are all guys into blonde, stick thin, popular, sort of slutty type of girls?
I'm tired of seeing all my friends have relationships and stuff and im sitting on the sidelines. I hate this feeling. I dont want the advice that i just need to talk to guys and be friendly, because that doesn't work. Because I do talk to guys.
Maybe I'm just unlikeable. I have no clue.
i really don't think that you should think of yourself as unlikeable. or even SUGGEST it to yourself. so just stop that.
i don't know if you are unlikeable, i don't know you, but my guess is that you aren't.
are you flirty, along with friendly, to guys you like? and how do you know you've never been liked!? as you probably know, sometimes guys are silly and don't ask girls out for a number of reasons. you've probably been liked.
i know how you feel, with your friends in relationships. you get annoyed that you don't have someone to do things with you and just you.
but i think that it's better to not have a boyfriend than to be desperate. just wait. but be careful, becasue if you were asked out, would you say yes now just to say yes? you will get yours. people always do. plus, do you want the guys who are only interested in slutty girls? i would think that you would want to find someone worth being with.
you have a long time. & the more years of highschool that go by without you getting your heart broken, the better, don't you think?
on another note, you know the strange people who get boyfriends and girlfriend ans act like it's nothing? that they deserve relationships becasue they don't know they're strage? that confuses me. and then there are perfectly normal people, most likely like you, that just don't get asked out...anyway, i just thought i'd mention how that makes me frustrated.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice. :]