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Q: Okay!!!
i'm sick of it!!
i mean... no offense BUT what's up with all these 14 and 15 year old girls thinking they are so old enough to have sex, like it's a casual thing.
I'm going to be 15 next week, and sex NEVER came in my mind to me, and I would never have it before i turned at least 20
yea... i know call me a holy person or crap... but seriously!! why are people doing it SO young...
They are still kids
I was reading all these questions about sex... and they are from like 14 and 15 year olds
THAT'S RIDICULOUS
i'm not trying to lecture or anything now here's my serious question....

I am getting to know guys now, and gonna be dating them....... now i'm kind of afraid that they'll all want sex and pressure me into it..
I'm not like that... i'm saving it
And the one thing i'm worried about is that if i don't give it... he'll take it from me

I mean, i don't care if i have to break up or lose them just bc they want sex... i just don't want to be taken advantaged of... y'know?

Help?

Thx for reading.... sorry it's sooo long
okay well hopefully you can tell early on in the relationship if the guy pressures you into having sex, i was pressured at the begging of a relationship and i thankfully got out of it in the beginning.

but anyways i have to say im 15/f and im not a virgin and im proud of who i lost it to i love the guy to death and ive been with him for along time and it just felt right, i wasnt pressured we just agreed and these days with all the sex and stuff were exposed to we just do it at a younger age than generations before us, i dont think its wrong at all its a natural thing.

good to know
Thanks! :]

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