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k so theres this guy who i messed wround with before but i didnt go all the way with him. and he is an asshole..and he calls me a slut.. what can i say to a guy when they call me a slut?? cuz i never know what to say (link)
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That's a horrible thing for someone to say and completely uncalled for.
People are just so absurd sometimes. Guys want you to sleep with them, and if you don't they'll call you a prude or a tease- but then if you do sleep with someone they'll call you a slut. They try to put you in a no-win situation.
That's why it's best to just do what you know is right and not give a d**$ about what anyone else says.
If a guy called me a slut I'd call him one right back to show them how ridiculous it is to call someone that. They have no way to win when you do that because any answer they give you will make them look bad. If they say 'a guy can't be a slut' then they are showing that they are sexist and have a double standard. If they say they aren't a slut, then you can just laugh because that means the guy's just pissed because he isn't getting any. If he agrees that he is then he has no right to call anyone else one does he?? Put THEM in the same NO-WIN situation that they're trying to put you in.
If a GIRL calls you that, then it's even more messed up because a girl should understand and never want to put another girl through that. So she's either jealous or just plain evil. Stay away from anyone who would stoop that low. You're better than that. That's cruel and low-class- I would tell them that! Only trash with no manners would say something like that.
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i love it all..now i hope i can remember all that lol thanks a buch :]
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