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Ok how do I word this...Ok so last night I got into another fight with Eric. ...The third one this week. See lately, he's been telling me he hates himself and i deserve better than him. But then the next day he'll be like "Go Die XD" and its ridiculous. But he's really good friends with this guy, Mark. And Mark is an amazing guy. He's always there for me and my friends keep telling me he likes me and I might like him back...But if I stop being friends with eric..me and Mark will probably drift. And last night Eric blocked me from aim and I've been up all night watching prince of bel-air and eating straight from a tub of ice cream :/ I can't deal with this. I don't want to lose Mark and I really don't want to lose Eric either but its probably better if i do. WHAT DO I DO.

From what you've said it sounds like the friendship you have with Eric is really unhealthy. I don't think it's beneficial to your emotional health to remain friends. But then, you're smart so you know that all ready.

If you're afraid of drifting away from Mark, why don't you talk to him? Don't drag him into the problems that you and Eric are having, but maybe you should let him know that you think the friendship you have with Eric is unhealthy and that maybe it's time to break away. Maybe you should also tell them that you value HIS friendship and you would really hate for whatever is happening between you and Eric to come between the two of you.

Mark will either stay in touch or drift away like you said. I'm hoping that he'll stick around... But if not, you're doing what's best for you. Please remember that. ;)

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