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(Rating: 5) thanks.. as I was reading this I was thinking "this is really good advice... but I don't like it!" because it's really not what I wanted to hear but what I needed to hear.. read.. lol. so thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thank you! this is a really good answer! you helped a lot!
(Rating: 5) Wow, thanks! I never knew that stuff. Really helped me out, big time.
(Rating: 4) Thanks for your advice. I've advised my friend that she should take the HR route but she feels this move would be fruitless so she is left with little re-course currently other than quitting her job. Mainly she believes that her Regional Manager is in league with her devil of a brown-nosing Manager. Thanks for the advice though.
(Rating: 5) thanks, i think they're definitely from stress, but i'm gunna visit a doctor hopefully during my spring break. thanks for the advice :)!
(Rating: 5) wow yes that seems just like him thank you soo much
(Rating: 5) thanks friend..really helped clear my thoughts on what to do
(Rating: 5) wow that was really good thanks :)
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) thank you for your honesty, it helps. but this isn't the first time i've heard that & it wouldn't be the first time he & i both have tried to move on, we just keep going back to eachother, it's complicated. the thing is, i don't want to move on from him, & i know i should. i'll buy that book as soon as possible, books are my recovery. thank you, honestly.
(Rating: 5) aw thanks c:
(Rating: 5) thank you sooo mcuh =]
(Rating: 3) thankyou for your advice x
(Rating: 5) As soon as I saw the first line of your answer, I knew I'd give it a five. But what you said is completely true and I'll be sure to not let jealousy take over, and to talk to him. Thanks a ton :)
(Rating: 2) yeah i said NOT the noodles. =\ Rating changed by L2 mod.
(Rating: 5) thanks for the in-depth answer. it really helped <33
(Rating: 5) a thousand times, thank you! i love all of your advice, and i really appreciate that you took the time to answer my question. i look forward to reading more of your advice in the future. with much appreciation, sincerely yours.
(Rating: 5) Oh. I have overplucked a lot and my natural shape didn't do good for me.
(Rating: 5) its hard but im trying.. thank you :)
(Rating: 5) Wow thank you! This was one of the answers I got that brought tears to my eyes.. I can't believe you said I have emotional intelligence.. that's the first time anyone has EVER used that word to describe me. Thank you, so much, thank you! :)i loved how you gave me both encouragment AND profession suggestions. You answered this question on so many levels you deserve more than a five!
(Rating: 5) Hey I think you've hit the nail in the head. I've already started to act cool around him and I think that's going to drive him crazy because he thought he had won me over. But you're right it's all just a game to him. I also heard that the reason he and his wife seperated is because he cheated on her. So he has a history of this. I think it's best to just ignore him. He's just an insecure womanizer. thanks again!
(Rating: 5) yeah thats it! thanks alot..i liked that movie..( :
(Rating: 5) Thanks for this advice! Using it, I did get a raise, and now I make $13.00/hour - not bad for a university student!
(Rating: 5) thanks you so much :]
(Rating: 5) thanks alot... and she can't use a phone unless it's a big emergency. but sometimes she has to go into the hospital (like if she has a seisure or yet another blood clot) she has a phone there... so we talk to her there. and i find it funny because whenever i try to do nice things for her, her family (such as her siblings [my boyfriends aunts and uncles], and other child) such as when i stayed up til like 3 in the morning making her that blanket, they teased me for it. and when i gave it to her, i said jokingly "now you better like it! i stayed up til 3 in the morning working on that thing" and she laughed and said don't worry i love it! and her brother goes "well if you stayed up that late, than that's your problem" and it was completely evident that he was just trying to make me feel dumb. and i was really hurt by that, because he was putting me down for doing something nice. that made me really upset and i just wanted to yell out "well fuck you then" (pardon my french) but i didn't... i jsut sat there and looked at my mom who immediately defended me to him and said "well she was just doing something nice and i see nothing wrong with that" he could then tell her was the bad guy. so, my boyfriend, my mom, and i are really the only ones who get an utter sense of peace out of doing good things for her, so we're basically on our own. wow, sorry i rambled on and on about this, but it's something i feel really strongly about. just so you know, my advice column is 0NEL0VEEx (they're zeros, not O's) and my email is saraemilyx09@yahoo.com feel free to contact me back if you want, whenever/however you'd like =)
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much- I will keep that in mind. You know, he did get the hint and FINALLY stopped calling. But I will most definately keep this advice in mind- it isn't a good idea to just hope the guy takes a hint- some guys are just too desperate for their own good (and for mine)
(Rating: 5) sorry I didnt rate sooner, Great advice!!!
(Rating: 5) thanks sooo much if there was something higher then 5 i would have gave it to you:) but i do think it is depresion b/c i do have almost all those symptoms.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for the advice
(Rating: 5) Thank you xxx
(Rating: 5) Helpful <3
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much! Your advice is very useful
(Rating: 5) You're so right- thanks for the feedback! I've actually heard about that book, i should check it out.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! I can tell that you really took the time out to answer me!
(Rating: 5) thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your advice. This all really made sense and on some level I have known all of the things you have wrote to me. Its just so different to hear them from someone else. I have pushed every guy that came into my life out VERY QUICKLY except one and I have a second shot at a relationship with him so hopefully I will be able to realize that I have a problem and do something about it. Again thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much for replying to such a long question. Your answer was sincere and really well thought out. I appreciate it a lot. It's what I've known and needed to hear. Again, thanx...
(Rating: 5) thanks for being honest!!! ill take your advice
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) That's the best advice I think I've had in a very, very long time. Thank you for your help and the time you took to answer. Really, thank you.
(Rating: 5) Thanx
(Rating: 4) thanks
(Rating: 5) thank you very much for the well-thought out response. i totally understand that point of view, you know? i would want my kid to be safe as well. it just frustrates me that they aren't trying to see my point of view. it's pretty much, I'M OLDER SO LISTEN TO ME. i am going to try to discuss it with them, though, and i'm going to offer to let them meet the kids and talk to them and whatever they feel that they need to do. thank you again. :)
(Rating: 5) Woooowwww...Long answer..But I like it..Thanks!
(Rating: 5) thank you =)
(Rating: 5) thnx
(Rating: 5) thank you so much..ur advice was by far the best. they all sed no, but u actually gave me reasons why..thanx a bunch! :)
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much that really made me think ALOt! thanks for taking the time to answer my question :)
(Rating: 5) thank you for your advice, i agree with you that confronting her would be bad, she has already shown that she could care less. I especially like the end, I will be the pissed off little wife with a crowbar, LOL... it was nice to get a different perspective from someone in a managerial position. unfortunately, the new GM LOVES all the new work that my "husband" is doing, and unfortunately I work for a very small company where even the owner will flirt with my husband's new assistant, who BTW is younger then his own daughters... so, honestly i can't wait to get the hell out of there, though i won't be able to keep an eye on my husband's actions; I think i will save myself a lot of heartache if i don't witness it.... I will start looking for a new job this weekend; thanks again for your advice.
(Rating: 5) i love you. no really, i do. wow is all i can say, and i'd do anythingt to be able to give you more than a 5, because this was an amazing answer. Not exactly what I was looking for, and to be honest, at first when I started to read you answer i said "sigh, someone who's going to twist my question into some kinda philosophical debate.. oh my" but as I read on, I realized how right you were and how I'm ALWAYS so insecure and always try to change to become what everyone wants me to be. Thank you soo much, from the depth of my sometimes good, sometimes bad, heart.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for taking the time to help me so much, that helped a lot, I hope you stick around here and keep your column up because you rock!
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