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well.. i aint really done one of these before.. but here i go..
i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now.. but i have only known him for at least 4 months.. before i started talking to him.. i never knew him or spoke to im before. but neway.
for some reason. when im with him. i aint myself around him. im not shy like in the bedroom or anything. but normally im a happy person and full of energy. but when im with him. i just sit there looking sad a and borin.. he says he thinks im normal. but im different wen im with my friends. i dont no how to be myself aorund him. i keep gettin scared that he is gonna end it. i dont no y but i do. and i dont no weva thats y i cant b myself around him. coz im scared of loosin him. i need advice on how to b myself. and be more fun to be with??
If you are pretending to be someone you're not; you're lying to him. And lying is not only unfair to him; it's even more unfair to you. There may be nothing worse than living a lie... And he should know the person that he is dating. So... Do yourself (and him) a favor and just be yourself.
I know you're frightened that you might lose him. But think about what would happen if you did... You would be hurt, yes? Disappointed? And while I know how that feels and wouldn't want you to feel that way... I promise that you'll get over it and move on. The bottom line is that someone isn't worth having if they don't want the real you... And they don't deserve you if they make you feel bad about yourself.
So... Relax. Be yourself. If he cares about you he'll stick around. If not... You are going to be just fine. ;)
(Rating: 3) thankyou for your advice x