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Whatever your problem is, chances are I have dealt with it- either directly of indirectly- at some point in my life. I've worked as a Social Worker (with issues like mental illness, addiction, disabilities, eating disorders, etc.)

I've also taught school (to teens!)and have experience mentoring them.

In addition to that, I've lived in 4 different countries, many different cities, and worked jobs in all different fields from Software Sales to Fashion Designer.

This diverse life experience has given me knowledge on a wide variety of topics- which I hope I can put to good use here. :-)

So go ahead- ask away!

PS- I do not judge people or speak to them in a condescending way. However, I will be honest and tell you what you NEED to hear, not what you WANT to hear.
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okay so my parents got divorced like 2-3 years ago about. and my dad started dating this girl that is really nice and they have been going out for like a little more then a year maybe. so anyway my dad told me and siblings that she was pregnant! it came as a complete shock to all of us. they earn't even married. so anyway i don't really like talking about my feelings and stuff to anybody and i don't want people to like feel sorry for me or anything, so i don't no how to tell my friends. my best friend already know's because our moms are friends, but i don't know how to tell my other friends. you can definatley tell that she's pregnant now because she's on like month 7. i don't even no if i should tell some of my friends because alot of them don't even come over to my house and we just hang at the mall and stuff. so anyway, how do i break the news or should i even tell them? i no i have to tell my close friends but how? please hurry and thanks in advance! (link)
Look at all the movie stars that have babies and aren't married! Brad and Angelina for one.

While, I personally don't think it's the best way to go, everyone has to live their own lives according to what they think is best for them.

Only tell who you feel comfortable telling, and if they're good friends it shouldn't matter. After all, they are friend with YOU right? Not your parents. You have not control over your parents decisions- so it's not a reflection on you.



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