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15/f.
I'm a vegetarian and have been for a while now, after having begged my mom to let me be one for over a year. I love being a vegetarian and I'm planning on being one until I'm 18, then turn to a vegan. My main, and pretty much only reason, of being a vegetarian is because I'm an animal rights activist [I know what you're thinking. I'm only 15. What can I do?] Well, I haven't done anything yet, to be frank, because my mom would put me in an asylum if I joined or led a demo in front of KFC or at some crowded event. I have my goals set to be a renown animal rights/gay rights activist later on in life, though. Anyways, most people think that I'm a vegetarian because I want to lose weight, and while I DO want to lose weight, that's not what I became a vegetarian, as I've stated above. My family hassles me about it almost every day about how I don't need to become a vegetarian to lose weight *sigh*.
I've tried to get through to them that what they do in animal factories is just f*cked up and I don't support it and I don't believe I'm so greatly important to have an animal killed everytime I'm hungry and that people can live without meat and blah blah. But most people don't care/don't know about what really goes on in animal factories and what not. They don't really care, so even if I do try and get it through to them, they don't believe me or they stand by their justification of dying if they can't eat meat.
What should I do? I'm sick of people telling me that being a vegetarian is another reason to be anorexic & people putting down vegetarianism/ veganism. I've had some lady at a store tell me that being a vegetarian is another reason to be anorexic and another lady at a market saying that veggie burgers/patties are nasty and what not.
Just any reply would be great =) (link)
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I've been a veg for almost 20 years, for pretty much the same reasons.
And this was long before it was cool, like any celebs did, and at that time, it was really hard to even eat out because they had no veg options.
but things are changing a lot now. some people will still be close-minded or jump to conclusions, or not understand why you do it- but who gives a crap?
You be your own person. THey don't need to know why, that's none of their business. And don't feel like you have to 'convert' other people either (unless you want to, but that could make things much harder).
When i go out to eat with non-veg friends and anyone says anything I just say 'look i won't try to tell YOU what to eat, so please don't tell ME what I should eat'.
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