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Q: My boyfriend, of 2 years, just recently broke up with me, well like 6 months ago. He never really allowed me to let go, so I never really did. But finally we started drifting apart, and then he messages me & tells me that he wants me back.
I had met a boy, and we had been "talking" & I thought I liked him, until my ex tells me that, then everything this boy did, completely annoyed me. Well, my ex found out that I was talking to someone else, so he stopped talking to me, for about a week or so & me & this other boy grew closer, so we started dating. Well my ex comes back & I cheat on my new boyfriend, I told my boyfriend & he didn't get really mad, which bothered me. He let me get away with it, because he said he didn't want to lose me.
Now my ex rarely talks to me, because my boyfriend threatened him. & I want my ex back so bad. But I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. We've almost been together a month & he's super attached & so is his family. But I've been having to make up excuses to just not see him because he KILLS me. I just want my ex back, but I don't know what to do.
I can't break up with my boyfriend, because he's too attached & I've tried before & it just doesn't work.
I know this is long & confusing, but I really need help.
Your boyfriend sounds to me like the better guy. I think he will be more worth while to stick with. Suck it up girl, and when his grandfather dies, you need to really be there for him, especially if him and his grandfather were close. It will be a hard time for him, and he will need you. Don't be the stupid one and lose a great guy. Trust me, I have let to many perfect guys get away for someone I thought could be better. Sometimes I don't feel close with my boyfriend, but I know how much he cares for me, and it's hard to find someone else like that. Also, if he needed me, no matter how bad I felt, I would be there for him.

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I like to give relationship advice. I also like to receive it. It's funny how that works. I was in a relationship when I started using Advicenators and we are now good friends. I like someone now who is in a relationship. Stuff is very confusing, but I handle it well.

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