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Hello. My name Is Solemnstar.I'm a fifteen year old (assumed) male-to-female Transexual.
I want to help, plain and simple.
I like plain and simple, I like to catergorize people, ptu them into nice little boxes in my head.
and I LOVE figuring out the ones that don't fit.
Chatspeak annoys me, It takes an extra two seconds to type the real words.
I don't anwser advice as often as I should. Mainly because of School.
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how come it is worse for girls to do it than for guys? why is the double standard that way
We live in a society where Men are supposed to be dominant, strong and in charge and Women are seen as the parents, and sexual objects.
in short:
Men: In charge
Women: Sexy, and parents.
BUT, sex is also a Taboo. It's aqward to talk about for many, and people just dislike when people are open abotu such things. So the we also have a second opinion of it.
Men are supposed to father a child to carry on a bloodline, going far back into the past, the need to reproduce to survive.
Women are supposed to remain "pure" and virgins, because sex was just not talked about. but they were still sexual objects.
We See the girl as Impure for giving up her virginity, because they are supposed to just be mothers, never have sex for Plesure.
the Male, is seeing as being dominant, obviously, as that is how it's always been.
The double standary is that way because girls are always seen as more pure, so there is mroe of a taboo of them having sex. and men, are supposed to eb dominant, and darker. sex to them is to say "yeah, that girl is mine".
it's cruel and wrong, and thats how it is. And in my opinion, that will only change once society as a whoel accepts sexual feelings and it becomes acceptable to speak of them. and then Perhaps peopel will Once again understand the sacredness of Virginity, and why it should only be given TO one who understands truely what you are giving to them.
Solemnstar
(Rating: 5) wow detailed! :)