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this might be long but i need help please help. ok so i had a boyfriend who i really loved. and i know he loved me too. there were jsut moments when you know you can feel it. we were fine and all but then i broke up with him because he was acting different liek he wasnt the same we lasted 10 months. so i asked for a break. during that break i missed him so much and he always said he missed me too. we would always talk and such. but then i decided that i wnated him back. so i tried to talk to him and he told me that i dont deserve him and i said why? and he said if i knew all of the bad things that he did to me then i would neevr want to hear from him again. so i told him tell me. and he said tht he doesnt want to hurt me but that he needs to tell me to get it off his back. he said that he cheated on me. those 8 months out of 10. i thought i was going to die when he said that to me. he also told me that he had sex with 2 girls and that while we were at themall and i went to the abthroom he saw one of his exs and hang out with them. he told me he loves me, and i was the only girl that he loved but that he couldnt take me back becuase after what he did things would never be the same. he says hes really sorry and that he does love me. he sid i showed him what real love is and that he messed up things badly and i shouldnt be with him. he said i too good for him. but after everything he said to me i still miss him. why? how can i get hurt and still miss him? what should i do now? any comments advice? thanks! for the help i really do appreciate it!

i agree that you miss him because you loved who you thought he was. if ever yall decided to get back together itd just be a recipe for disaster and heartbreak. would you have faith that he wouldnt do that to you again? think about it.. 8 months of your relationship was a lie, and he says that you showed him what real love was, but if that was so i couldnt possibly imagine why he was only faithful for two of those ten months. i mean, having sex with two other girls? hun thats about as low as it gets. he doesnt deserve you, without a doubt. if he really loved you he wouldnt have gone behind your back & cheated repeatedly. please do yourself a favor and dont ever ever ever take his sorry self back. chances are it would only happen again. just keep reminding yourself of all the bad he did to you [itll make you get over him alot faster ha] and find yourself a guy who will be true to you, because i promise there are some out there. good luck girl!

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(Rating: 5) thankyou so much you helped alot. best advice!
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