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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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REALLY LONG, AND IM SORRY..
but i had to tell the whole story so you would understand it.



16/f
At the end of my freshman year I became friends with this girl Katelyn. Me and Katelyn became really close, and she was my BEST friend. We Spent everyday in the summer together!!
I always had a boyfriend, Katelyn never had a real relationship.
So during the summer I was dating a kid name Bradley. He was great, and he always took me and Katelyn to the movies(of course katelyn paid her way) But I wasnt allowed to go, so i had to sneek. And I ALWAYS thought she liked that i took her along.
So comes 10th grade and we start out close, best friends, nothing is wrong. Then I start dating Marcus, I REALLY Liked Marcus, so I didnt sneek to the movies or anything with him. So I spent everyday with him(bad move, i know) So me and Katelyn start to loose our closeness. (i;m still with Marcus) So come Feb. we get into a BIG fight. Mainly bc i would sit with her at lunch, but she wouldnt say one word to me the whole time.(bc she got other friends, which are the fakest people in my school.) So we got into a fight.
Now I was in class with her old best friend. (Long story sort, Betty was a hoe our freshman year and said some guy raped her, when he really didnt. And it was at katelyn's party. ) So Im in calss with her ALL year. So when me and katelyn get into a fight, i start talking to Betty more. And I start saying things about Katelyn that at the time i would thing to myself and say "shouldnt say that" but Katelyn was my main friend, and I didnt have one after her. And I wanted a friend sooo bad. So i would talk about Katelyn behind her back(fake i know)
But now she wants to be friends again. I want to so baly bc i miss her soo much. She was like a sister to me. But i dont want to go back to school and people think Im fake and all bc of the things I said this/last year.
What should I do? Be friends with her again and not care what people say or think bc i have my best friend back.
Or not be friends with her bc of the things I said??
Please help me!.. =[

I really think that you should be friends with her again. You were mad, you said some things that you didn't mean, so that shouldn't hold you back from the one thing that you want so bad, your best friend back. Just make sure that you NEVER make a guy your number one. My friend does that, and she's always with her boyfriend. We're not close as we used to be, and it's not the same. We used to be inseperable, and it's definately not like it used to be. Always remember that she was there before you had your boyfriend, and she'll be there AFTER you have your boyfriend. Just apologize to her, tell her you were mad and you had to vent to somebody, even if it wasn't the best choice to vent to some girl you're not so close with. Say that she was your one true friend and you've been lost without her, and the one thing that you want back is her friendship. Good luck

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