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Q: ok this is gonna be kinda long.. but i would really appreciate some advice on this =) okay so basically i went out w/ this guy for like a year.. then i broke up w/ him for a few reasons. and he kinda knew that i liked one of his best friends a little but that was only for like a few days. and i kinda just wanted to be single. andd my friends didnt really like him so i got pressured from them too. so yeah i did it. and i was really mean to him after. like i would just bitch at him for no reason.. i guess i did it because 1. i still liked him but i was like trying to push him away 2. he got over it pretty quickly..probably b/c i had done this a few other times 3. his friends were bothering me 4. he found a new girl like a week later (they werent going out though). yeah so anyways i was pretty much a bitch to him and i dont think i was the best gf either. and it kinda sucks that it took all this to realize that but i know its a lot to ask but i just want to be friends w/ him b/c like when you go out w/ someone for like a year you get kinda close w/ them and then its like a big loss in your life when theyre just gone. but the problem is he doesnt want to talk until the end of the summer.. and by then i dont think we will ever talk againn soo yeah what should i do? like i understand i was such a bitch to him but i apologized and some of the reasons were his fault. what should i do? sry its so long xoxo
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I know its hard. But give him space. The entire summer seems a little extreme but at least a couple of weeks to himself to realise how much he'll miss you. Then about halfway or more through the summer call him and tell him your still so sorry and you want to make it up to him and that if maybe he'll forgive you that you guys can be just friends because tell him not only was he your boyfriend but one of your bestfriends and after the brake up you lost both and you want your best friend back. Hope I helped somehow.
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Wow desicribing myself is hard. ive been through alot, i tried suciding and whole bunch of crap that screws up your life and i want to help you through anything. but the worst ive been through was a heartbrake a TRUE heartbrake for 9 months i cried everyday so i know what it feels like to fall in love and then be broken and i can help you through almost anything when it comes to that.
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E-mail: Location: ask me that again in ten years Age: 13 Member Since: July 7, 2007 Answers: 29 Last Update: August 15, 2007 Visitors: 2468
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