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ok i have some random questions that just popped up..
if you smoke weed while your hair is wet does it stay in more than if it was dry?
how many hits do you need to have before you get high?
how different do you act. like in what way?
is it like being drunk?
i have done weed 3 times and i still dont know these things. haha thanks (link)
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I'm not sure what you're referring to as "staying in you're hair", I'll assume that you're talking about the smell. I'm not sure whether it's true, but I've always noticed that when my hair is wet that you can smell smoke when it's wet again, even if I've washed it. I think hair tends to absorb smell more when it's wet, maybe.
Second, it goes from person to person. It's going to depend how you smoke it, how many people you're smoking with, and anything you might have in your body. On average, one bowl (maybe, 10 hits top) is enough to get you moderately high. Same thing goes for how you're acting. Some people feel energized, crazy, and some people feel extremely mellow or tired after. It's not too similar to being drunk, at least I don't think so, because I have pretty strong control of my actions, but I feel almost in a trance. Again, it's a bit different for everyone. Hope this helps.
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Ive known this guy for like 2 years now. We've been best friends since we first met. Over the time i've fallen in love with him. He says he only loves me as a friend. But, sometimes he acts like he wants to be my boyfriend. Hes starting to confuse me. He'll do anything for me. Hes soo sweet. When I make him mad at me, he'll end up giving in because he hates not talking to me. He says it kills him.
How do I get over him? everytime it seems i do, he draws me back in. Even if i have a boyfriend! (link)
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I know exactly how you're feeling-i just finished dealing with your exact same problem, and I know how hard it is. I think the biggest thing you should remember is that guys don't always realize that they're actions have hidden subtext; that is, they don't realize what they're actually doing isn't how it's being perceived. As a good friend of mine once told me, 'God gave men a dick and a brain, but not enough blood to run both' - meaning that sometimes the horniness just takes over and he doesn't think rationally. He probably doesn't realize that the flirting - or whatever else may be happening - confuses you, and if he knew that how much it confuses you I'm sure he'd try to stop.
Taking your friendship to 'the next level' probably isn't the best idea. From what you've said, it sounds like you don't want to, and it's hard to go back to being only friends after you've messed around, even if you've both agreed that it was an experimental thing, hooking up. I've messed around with my best friend, and even though we're alright now we were both really weirded out doing...intimate...things together. I don't suggest friends with benefits, either, because things get really fuzzy that way, and that can easily ruin a friendship.
Getting over him is going to take time. Remind yourself that he's your best friend and that you wouldn't want to risk the friendship for something that could only possibly work out, unless he's specifically stated that he wants to be more than friends with you. If it keeps up, I'd talk to him about it. If you're really close something letting him know how you feel probably won't make things weird. Communication is the best option if you're having a hard time figuring things out. Take your time, and don't expect to get over him overnight. Good luck!
JM
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