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Q: my life is going go so good right now. everythings perfect, ive got the perfect bestfriend, and i have the perfect kid.

but, hes not mine. hes someone elses, and they fight constantly, i dont even think he likes her anymore. and him and i have always liked eachother, and he came over yesterday, and we were having like, 45345x of fun. we went to the park, and well, when he said goodbye, he said "i love you" and gave me a big hug, that like picked me off the ground. :P

and wouldnt ya know it... his girlfriends brother was there to pick him up. :[
they are fighting again, but becuase of me.. and well, i dont know. he always says sorry to me, and says he does love me.

but, he wont break up with his girlfirned, becuase his friends are her friends, and her brothers are his bestfriends. :P

:[ should i stick around, or just give up on all of it togehter. ?

I think you should tell him to brake up with her but to do it gently. Tell him to say that he still loves her but not in the same way anymore. And if he argrees to all this and brakes up with her don't go out with him right away give it some time max would be about 3 weeks but at least 1 week. I hope everything works out for you.

Rating: 5

thank you. :D

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Wow desicribing myself is hard. ive been through alot, i tried suciding and whole bunch of crap that screws up your life and i want to help you through anything. but the worst ive been through was a heartbrake a TRUE heartbrake for 9 months i cried everyday so i know what it feels like to fall in love and then be broken and i can help you through almost anything when it comes to that.