okay my name is Kristina a.k.a Munchie and I would upload a pic but I cant do it because my computer is messed up! Anyways I'm 5'1 and I weigh 102 lbs. Yes I EAT! I love food, but I know how to stop when I'm hungry. I love having friends and family! I hate the fact that I'm short. I have a myspace and if ya wanna add me my email is sexyhotchick_87@yahoo.com and you can see my pictures on there! I LOVE Jennifer Love Hewitt! she's so little and cute. I'm single right now. I also have dark brown hair and a round face. LOL! I love this website! And if you need me to answer I question then I will because I love giving out advice!
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Ive noticed some things about myself and i was wondering if these are normal and how to change them.
I could go outside with my family and have the best day of my life, but then come home and after a few hours be misreable and angry.
When i am having a great day, it never seems to last. But after a little bit i can cheer myself up. But then ill be sad again.
I get to sleep at about 11 (or somtimes 2) at night (or 2 in the morning)
I have wierd eating habbits where i dont get hungry (expt i always love candy/munchies) until late at night, when i need to go get somthing to eat.
I'm a 13 year old girl
I broke up with my boyfriend (who i had been datin on/off for a year) out of the blue. (The day after i had heart surgery and he has been so suportive about it, saying he would visit me and everything) He was perfect and amazing but i didnt think i loved him and some days im over him and im happy for him and whatever new life hed like to have and i want him to get a girlfriend and move on and other days i just want him back. But i know i cant because i dont even know what i want.
Some days when i think about things my ex-boyfriend would do or say, it would make me be thankful it was over and other times the same things make me miss him.
I know im smart enough to get straight As but i get As and Bs because its so much simpler in theory. I get to stressed from all of the pressure of quizes.
I have high expectations of myself and i seem to fail most of them.
I used to think i had the best body but now im losing faith in my self image.
Im in-consistant in everything.
I used to think i needed to be perfect in everything..
Im inspired easily but easy come easy go.
I feel like my life is ina downward spiral and that im going crazy. But tomorow when im happy everything will look so clear.
What is my problem? Why am i like this?
Please help. Id love any advice that you can give me. (link)
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Okay I understand you because I used to be you age. It's confusing and diffcult and sometimes I just wanna take a gun and shoot everyone. Yeah I'm 14 now I'm still going through this shit. I hate it but I understand that I'm maturing and my body and mind is changing all the time and I have no control over it. I often feel very lonely and like people don't like me because I'm me. It's not like that though. You need to be positive about your self. Because if you think you're ugly and fat in middle school then guess what you'll always feel that way. Another thing is life always changes its not gonna be like that forever. and I know it feels like it never ends. It does though I've seen people go from being really depressed when they are your age and when they turn 16 they start gettin new friends and they get a good healthy social life. The real truth is that you're young. And you have to go through this so you can mature and be able to have friends and boyfriends. so just wait it out but always think positive thoughts. Don't self destruct like cutting yourself. Also this has a lot to do with hormones not you or anybody else just hormones so when you feel like everyone is coming down on you or you're coming down on your self just remember this is all hormones. Okay?
Okay. I really hope this helps sweetie. Stay positive!
~ Munchie!
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Thanx so much! I read this the second you posted it but i wasnt signed in so i didnt rate it sorry. That as really great advice! You totally turned my perspective around. Your so right and you really made sence thank you so much Munchie!
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