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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that. (link)
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As long as your bestfriend has only slept with M, I wouldn't necessarily consider her a whore. A whore is usually considered as someone who sleeps around with multiple boys at once, or someone who's "easy." I don't think you explained your bestfriend as either, right? Yes, 17 boys is a LOT of fellas. But as long as she didn't date two or more at once, I don't see what's wrong? You can't blame her for boys liking her. O_o Still, the age she started having sex disgusts me. As well as the number of times she had too. But despite it all, it's HER life and it's not like you'll be able to make those kind of decisions for her. And despite her sexual experience, it doesn't change her as a person, overrall. I bet if she hadn't told you about her past, you'd still have a great friendship, right?
It's ultimatly your decision, but I don't think that should have anything to do with yall's friendship.. Your friend confided in you with something that's really none of your business. I think you shouldn't label her as a whore, and start acting like a real best friend, but hey. Iuno.
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thanks. but idk im confused. and we dont reali talk no more
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