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how do you stay bestfriends with a guy: i know this guy who is only bestfriends sometime: we flirt alot but we both know that were only friends& it doesnt mean anything:: like what could i say to flirt with him but for him to know its only a friendship?

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Im not a guy BUT i do have a bestfriend who is a guy. Um why would you want to flirt with your bestfriend? Usually when you flirt with someone it means a bit more than friendship. A bestfriend, wether is a guy or girl, is someone you trust and enjoy being yourself around. Me and my bestfriend have like almost everything in common and no conversation is ever boring or awkward. You cant really flirt with a guy without them thinking you want more then a friendship. Or you could say "im flirting with you but only as friends". Do you like this guy? Like you cant really make someone your bestfriend you both just decide that you 2 are good friends and hes the one you trust out of all your friends.

My advice which is totally off the question is: Dont TRY.
It seems like your trying to make him your bestfriend and trying to make him want to be it. Friends are just supposed to love you for who you are and you don't have to change anything about yourself to make them like you.

If hes only a bestfriend sometimes, then he isnt really your bestfriend. a bestfriend is someone who is ALWAYS your friend not just a temporary resource.

Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx


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thanks :) but like we dont really flirt we like idk its had to explain: nvm i guess




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