I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
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I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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If I wanted a boyfriend, but my parents wont let me, should I go about it the sneaky way and not tell them ? What would be the cons and pros to that if I did? I'm turning 14. (link)
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You know what i think? If you love a guy no matter how old you are or what your parents think, you date him!
Most peoples parents tell them they cant have relationships until a certain age because they worry about them getting hurt, and in these days about sex.
If your intuition is telling you that you should date him and you want to then do it. Who and when you date is up to you and no one else. What you do is another story.
Pros:
1.Your doing what you want and thats all that matters.
2.Your happy.
3.Its great for young teens to experience relationships and begin to develop their emotions also to help guide them later in life when their relationships become more commited.
Cons:
1.Getting caught.
2.Hard to see your boyfriend outside of school.
3.Lying to your parents (guilt).
Look, if you love a guy and you want to be with him then go out with him. Even if later down the track you tell your parents they can't FORCE you to dump him.
Do whatever you feel is right!
Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXxx
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