I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
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ok well i have this friend named jen and she is generally really annoying. ive known her since 2nd grade and shes always been like this. people pretend to like her and stuff and a lot of her friends think that she is really annoying and wish she would shut up. shes nice tho and people dont wanna be mean to her. problem is we're starting high school soon and she will not have any friends the way this is going. shes an only child, kinda rich, really spoiled, and a wannabe prep. she brings up the stupidest jokes that are not funny, she has an obsession with school-as in if there is a test its all she talks about, laughs too much, and is very stalkerish. she wants to be my bff but im like the total opposite. guess you could say ima tomboy, i dont like shopping much-[shes obsessed with name brands] and i like hanging out with guys mostly. my friends think shes so annoying and so do i but how can she change this. she knows that she has a problem and wants me to help her with it. uhh i dont want her to be like a loner or anything cuz shes nice and stuff. thanx =]
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One of my 'close' friends is exactly like that expect shes the baby of the family so she gets whatever she wants. You need to sit down and talk to her about how annoying she gets. Tell her some things she can change. She probably likes attention alot because her parents have given her so much of it so the reason why she does all those things is to get people to notice her. Tell her people will pay attention to her and like her if she just calms down a bit and acts a little less clingy. Tell her straight out the kind of things she can improve on. In highschool if she doesn't change, she'll find people who are exactly like her to be friends with. But she has gone to you for help so try your best to help her out. She probably looks up to you thats why she's asked you to help her. She can be interested in brand names and shopping but the stalkerish part is just a bit much. If you don't want to be Bff's then tell her she's just to full on and needs to just relax a little. Just be honest with her about whats annoying people but give her some positives to like that she is a nice person and stuff. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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