I'm Em.
I'm a 20 year old English/History student living in Sydney.
I dig art, music and books.
I'll take questions on relationships, friendships, high school, uni, or whatever else.
I try to give the best advice I can, usually drawing on my own personal experience. But I'm not perfect, and sometimes when I look back on some of my advice it's far from it (especially when I was 15 and writing LiKe THiS). It's just advice, though. It's not an answer or a solution, it's simply a potentially helpful perspective. And that's all I can offer you.
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So, I have a bestfriend like, we're together ALL the time i mean i love her to death i really do but she has this boyfriend that shes had since 8th grade and he plays her soooo bad! hes cheated on her so many times like i wouldn't be surprised if it was over 30 times seriously, and it makes me sick but I try to get her away from him but she just wont. I've tried talking to her and doing everything I can to help her out but it just doesn't help anything. What do you think i can do to get her away from him? (link)
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Ok the reality of it is she really likes this guy and doesn't want to let him go. The longer she stays with him the harder its going to be to let go and shes just going to end up getting hurt. You can't force her to dump him and it's good that your trying to tell her, that's what good friends do. Most people would be to afraid to hurt her feelings or something but being honest is the only way. Try to find some time to yourselves and tell her straight out he treates her bad, she's being played and she deserves better. Other than that, there isn't really much you can do. Its her choice if she wants to be with him or not and you can't change that no matter how much you want to. She'll get smart soon and realise she deserves better but for the time being, just give him dirty looks when you see him lol. You could always talk to this guy and get him to stop cheating on her or something? Anyways, your friend does deserve better and she's just gona get hurt, i hope she'll be ok. And when she does get hurt, atleast she has a good friend like you. Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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thank you very much for the advice..ik i cant really do anything about it but it just gets me sooo frusterated!
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