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I'm a 13/f, and i'm really hoping to get a guys opinion. I have blonde hair, grean/blue eyes (depending on what i'm wearing), i love guys with shaggy, long hair, and i'm not popular, but i'm not down-in-the-dirt either. There's this guy i've liked since the beginning of last year, and i can't seem to get his attention. I don't want to change my personality at all because i love the way i am, but i really like him. Do you have anything i could do to turn him on? What would you want a girl to do for you? I am really seeking advice. I hope you can help me :(

I'm not a guy, but I've got a lot of guy friends, so I kind of know what I'm talking about a little bit.

Don't change yourself for a guy. Be yourself. I don't know any guy who wants a girl that's fake, as in changing how they act/dress to impress a guy. Maybe he's just shy or something. A lot of guys won't make the first move, so if you want to know if he likes you, too, I say approach him. You may be nervous, but you never know what he'll say, so in the end you could be happy you made the first move and didn't try to change yourself.

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(Rating: 5) thanks a ton. i hope you're right! :)


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