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im justine im chill i like to party and kickit with the homies. i like in corona i like helping people with there proablems you can ask me anything im here for you AND WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO SAY.advice
My boyfriend has been a jerk lately.. You see, I barely get to see him and we talk mostly on the phone for about a good 15min a day.. Which kinda bothers me a bit because I wish to see him more often, but he has work and when he does have a break.. he'd rather hang out with his own friends first.. then when it gets to me, he'll tell me he's too tired to hang out.. I let this go for awhile, but now it's just getting to me.. 2 days ago I called and asked him if he wanted to go see a movie and what do I get? A "I don't want to hang out with you.." Me being usually cheery when I talk, my voice lowered in an instance and I just kept quiet for awhile.. He then asks why I'm upset, ...HA! like he doesn't know.. Then he starts saying, "If you're going to cry, I don't want to hear it. I'd rather hang out with my friends and I'm telling you in the nicest way, I DO NOT want to hang out OK?" My heart sank.. It's the first time he's ever said that.. Like that.. And of course, the tears came out and I had the sniffles and guess what happens? He tells me to call him back when I'm done crying.. I do call back, but this time I was pissed. I told him I never get to see him and if he even notices that.. Notices that I needed him.. And what a total jerk he's being.. All I get is a "Don't talk to me if you're going to be like this, you need to grow up." *click* ..so here I am today, wondering what to do. He hasn't called, so I guess it's my job to. But.. should I even bother with this? ..we've been going out for almost 2 years.. should I just throw all that away.. I don't know what to do.. I don't want to be alone.. Help please? :(
That is so hard to do.well i would suggest you do is when the next time you hangout with him is you need to talk to him make shure noone is there and its sumwhere where tehre is no distractions. and start off asking him stuff and be like whats going on we have been together for 2 years is this the end?and ask him whats going on no matter if it hurts you you need to no. bacause he can be hiding somthing it seems like. just talk to him and dont be mean just talk to him nicley and try to get it out of him an dwhen he tells you just say i understand.
(Rating: 5) :] thank you so much for the advice.. and you were right, he was hiding something or actually not telling me things. His friends are going out commercial fishing and he wants to hang out with them as much as possible because he wouldn't see them for 3 months. And also, he's been having family problems.. Parents fighting and taking it out on him, his sisters crying and blaming him for all the fights in their house.. just pure chaos. After talking with him one on one, he realized how much crap he puts me through and how i'd always be there for him even though. He told me he was really sorry and is appreciative that I've stuck with him for so long.. He's willing to change.. and I'm willing to help him with his family.. His friends also want me to hang out with them since they notice he doesn't spend that much physical time with me. They want us to be happy like before.. :] ..I think things will be ok now.. hopefully! (crosses fingers)