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My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months...but most of those months we werent together cuz he lives in New York...and I live in California.He's 5 years older than me,and he's moving out here JUST FOR ME.Basically I want to know if it's really possible for is to stay together forever,or am I living in a fantasy world.Oh and he's always telling me that we will be together forever and stuff like that.
Well having your boyfriend move to California for you is a very big commitment. I don't know your age, but if you are young it is very difficult for a young couple to stay together. However there are many young couples that stay together. Don't look so far into the future (I have this problem to). Of course you want things to work out, and for you two to stay together but try not to focus on that. Focus on spending time together now, and live in the moment. If you plan your future now it's unlikly it will turn out that way. Take it one day at a time. He is five years older then you and that is an age gap. He probably is ready to have a girlfriend that he will be with for the rest of his life. You should talk to him, tell him that alot of couples don't stay together forever and you want to take it moment at a time, if you don't feel comfortable telling him that I can tell you right now it's not going to work out, but if you do then it will make you a stronger couple! Good luck! :)
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I do tell him that...and he always tells me..."We're not most couples...nothing is gonna break us up"
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