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okay. my name is ashley for those who are wondering and im 15 years young. im about to be a sophomore in highschool and basically like to give people advice. i have been told that the things i say are pretty good butif you dont like what i say then good for you, i tried. Ask me anything im always up for the challenge and when i answer your question i normally try and relate it to things similar going on in my life. Say anything rude and i will delete the comment. if you need help and dont want others to see it you can message me on myspace or you can IM me at xBESTmemory x3
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Okay, this is kind of long, but I really need answers.
Ok. So I have a crush on one of my coworkers. We work at a movie theatre together, and we always have a blast when we have the same shifts. I'm 17/f, and he's 22/m. So yes, there is an age difference. We've hung out with mutual friends a few times, and I've known him for almost a year.
He and I always did that sort of cutsey flirty thing, but even though I liked him, I always just figured he was only goofing around, not to be hurtful, but he just didn't think of me as more than a friend. Then monday night rolled around.
We were both working until close together and of course we were being very flirty, kinda joking around and hugging a lot. Then, when we were closed, he took me onto the roof of the building where we just talked and goofed around. Then we started hugging and kind of swaying. He kept joking about making out in the closet, asking me what I was thinking, all that kind of stuff.
So now I think he may in fact like me. After the evening ended, I sent him a text message saying "heh. next time just kiss me." and he responded with "yeah that was some pretty hard flirting, wasn't it?"
I dunno whether or not to make a move, though! We haven't really hung out one-on-one yet, and I have, in the past, ruined a friendship by thinking it was more than that. Should I wait for him to do something more? Or should I do something?
Thanks in advance SO much!
i would say just give him a little more time. it would almost be like playing hard to get. try asking him to stuff one on one and see how that goes, if it happens it happens. fate knows whats meant to be. just go with it =]
(Rating: 5) thank you muchly =D