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Okay, so my boyfriend now has a job and football.. and i only get to see him at school in the hallway (we don't have classes together) and like 5 hours on sundays.

i think it's really unfair, and sometimes when he gets days off his parents don't let us see each other, for no reason. i don't think they hate me though since they do let me come over sometimes too. we've been going out for like 7 months, and i REALLY love him but not getting to see him much kinda sucks now.

his parents say he HAS to have a job, so he can't get out of that.. & i don't think he will want to quit football because he's played it every year since he was like, 4.. but do you think the time we see each other is enough? what should i do? i'm 16 & he's 17.. & football ends in october :/ & he is always going to have a job so yeah..

Last year, when I fell in love - I could only see him twice a month (if lucky) & only for a few minutes to at the most an hour. But I never gave up on him, but then he moved. And I still haven't. It's been almost 2 years and I still love him. Just not as intense. I know it's unfair, it's terrible. There's really not much that you CAN do. Just pray, try to stay together, but don't become too clingy. If you really love him, and he loves you, it will take A LOT to separate the two of you. (From experience). Believe in yourself and him and do everything you can; I didn't. That's where I went wrong, don't be like I was. And the unbelievably excruciating emotional pain that I had to go through was a phenomonon. Then again, if you're not meant to be together... the sooner the better.
Follow your heart, because even though it's on the left side, it's always right. Follow your instincts.
Much Luck.

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