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Well, I have this friend, whom I used to be very close w/ since like preschool but the begining of this year was bad, like really bad, we just don't talk& now we're going to be freshman& she just pisses me off, like the little things add up. I mean I was wearing shorts, they were pretty short, but they weren't tight& you didn't see anything& I thought they were cute, then the first thing she says when she sees me is why don't you go put some clothes on, so I ignore it, then we were all (like 12 of us, including my crush) watching a movie& then I went to get some chips& she snatched them out of my hand& wouldn't let me have any the whole night, then I started being a bitch, because I was sick of it, so I called her a fatass(shes not really)& the last thing that set me off was I had to leave so then I was like will someone come walk me to the car, it's kinda a bad part of town& shes like I can't toren(a friend) is sitting on me, so he gets up& shes like gravitys holing me down, I was like whatever& walked out.like that night, me& my crush Kyle, were laying on eachother (not like real bad, he was leaning against a couch& I had my head on his cheast& we were holding handS) then I dated him once before, which his friend lied to me& said he was cheating on me (which he wasn't) then she was like I don't think you should get into that mess, when I said i'm gonna go back out w/ him, I was like you dated adam four times,& he broke up w/ you each time& we told you not to go back to him but what do you do? you do it.(adams her ex)& I didn't like him, which she knew that,she said it's different, when really it's not.

I don't think she likes me anymore, like as a friend& I don't care, but its hard because we've known each other for so long, what should I do? just stop talking to her, because well I guess a new group of people have started talking to me, but just because her I don't want to lose my other friends.

Get to know some new people, like that new group. Unless it's a menacing drug addicts/emo/goth group. I don't mean to label, but I don't know how else to say it with you still understanding who I mean. Anyway, she's not the nicest girl - and it amazes me at how many people go through this, including myself. I have some crappy friends right now that I'm not really talking to. So just talk to your guy friends - guys are so much funner to be with because they don't hold grudges, they just have fun; and they're not concerned in the latest gossip or backstabbing. I dunno what else to tell you.
Much Love,
Lauren

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(Rating: 5) Thanks, they're not like emo or druggies, they're like preppy like me. :) I think I might just do that.
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