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Q: im pretty sure my boyfriend likes this other girl. i know she likes him and he knows it too. he talks to her all the time and i always catch him staring at her and trying to catch her eye. i told him that if he likes her, he should break up with me. but he gets mad and says he doesnt like her, that he loves me and doesnt want to break up. its so confusing! i just know he likes her, so why doesnt he just break up with me? sometimes i think i should just break up with him, but i feel like HE should be the one to break up, becuz first of all i dont want to (i really love him), and second of all if i break up with him i know he'll go out with her and that would just about kill me (i know, id have to just deal with it, but still). i just dont understand why he keeps saying he loves me when its obvious he likes someone else. why would he do that?
guys usually like more than one girl at a time, well, the normal guys anyways. usually they like many and hope one works out. but theres always one girl that the guy has the strongest feelings for, adn its obviously you. he might have a little minicrush or w/e on this other chick. but if he does love you like he says he does, then itll go away. so its quite alright, and im sure that it will go away. so dont worry. =D

thanks! that makes me feel better. i hope youre right! :)

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