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Q: k well first i'm 13 and a girl and i really like this guy i mean we've only hung out a few times but i've had an on-and-off crush on him since the first day we met. the other day i went to his house and at first it was kinda awkward but then we started making out and we went to his room. once i realized everything i was all like "no you have a girlfriend you can't do this with me." and he was all like "but i might break up with her." and i was really confused i mean i really like him and this was like wow. I convinced my self what she doesn't know won't hurt her...right?

so we had sex but for some reason it wasn't what i expected and it was just disapointing. i mean this is the guy i've liked for a least half a year and we shared something that is meant to be special but it wasn't really all that great for me. i mean i want to be with him so bad and he told me straight off that we can't go out because he has a girlfriend but he just cheated on her with me..

so wat am i suppose to do wait on him until they break up or just forget about him i'm so confused plz help!!!

THANK YOU =D

hes a player and you fell for it. he has a girlfriends already and fucked with you. think if you were his girlfriend and he fucked with her. he said he might break up with her but after he had sex with you he said he wont break up now. he just said that to make you let him fuck around with you. if you do ever date he will probly end up haveing sex again with someone else. and hes only a on and off crush. you lost your virginity to him and you werent even dating he is taken and you only hung out a few times. forget about him. hes a player. i think 13 is the right age for sex but he already has a girlfriend and a player he led you on. im not meaning for this to be mean but its a bad day for me. i was also on the phone with my best friend(a guy)and i told him this question and he said 'ooooh hes a playyyyyaaa' in a funny voice and we love eachother but wont date hes the only person to make my day better. then i got home and the great day turned to hell. just dont have sex again till you dated for atleast a day. nothing is in a mean way if it sounds it. just forget him.

Rating: 5

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