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i'm married to a man that i do love and care for my marriage is great and yes i'm happy with him, but sometimes its very tirering when you can't really be free.example: he might say something i will respond with a sarcastic answer with that he will take personally and try to turn it as if i ment it seriously, when it wasn't "get it".
here goes my question:
can a person be that up tight in the mist of a sarcastic statement or joke to not find the humor in it? can a marriage last or be stressfree ever with out a little humor? (link)
If there's one thing that can save anything,I would say that it's humor. If you have a great sense of humor and you're husband's dull,there's hardly any chance that it's going to work out in the future.You're going to get stressed when he turns sarcasm into seriousness,and when things get rough there isn't going to be that joke or witty remark to brighten things up.

I'd talk to him about it to make sure that you two are on the same level and let him know that he shouldn't take you so seriously all the time.


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hmmmmmmmmmmm.....well to be honest with you i'm happy with every thing you said 100%, because you were on the money with the answers. if i could give a 100 i would because you were great. my husband and i both read it and i just told him every thing you said before we read your responds..... so thanks for that.




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