Alright. I'm 17 and I just need to let someone know and get someone else's advice because I can't say anything to my friends. So, I met this guy a while back and I've seen him a few times. I've always thought he was cute, but he's been dating this girl for a year and a half.
Now, I know this will sound ridiculous, but at the party last weekend I talked to him all night about a lot of different things. We really bonded and he kept telling me all night that he felt we had. He's a really great guy, but he cheated on his gf with me last weekend and I'm going to see him again this weekend. I mean. I really feel bad about it all, I do, but the more I think about it .. he wouldn't have cheated on her if he didn't have doubts or didn't want something more, you know? He says he loves her, but is he in love with being in the relationship with her or is he truly in love with her because obviously he can't completely be in love with her if he cheated on her. And just to clear a few things up, he has only cheated on her one other time before me so please just give me advice and what you think I should do or what you think actually on the whole circumstance. Thanks so much ya'll!
I'm going to give you some pretty BAD advice here.
you're young, you're energetic, you're probably pretty, and you've found a great guy. He's cute, but he has a girlfriend.
But, these are supposed to be the best years of your life. A lot of bad decisions, a lot of tears, but most of all, a lot of fun. If it feels good, do it. There's no permanent harm in what you're donig, at least not physically. Do what you desire, just don't get attached so he doesn't end up hurting you too much emotionally. He's probably one of the type of guys you should have a fling with, but not a relationship.
If you have a strong sense of morals and standards though, cut him loose. Don't hook up with him again.
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That wasn't bad advice at all. =] Thanks.
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