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advice

14/f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for not even a month but ive liked him for a really long time we were at the movies the other day and i gave him a hand job..it was my first time and now i feel really slutty and i regret it..is this normal?

Also we said that we werent going to tell ne one and that it was going to be "our little secret" but i really wanna tell my best friend..do u think i should?

truthfully,
although he is your boyfriend and you have liked him for a while...
a month is a little soon to be giving him a handjob.
even if you were ready, it's natural to feel a little slutty about it because your scared your moving too fast.
trust me, there are many 14 year olds who have done that before.
but just like you.. they dont want to tell anyone because they think people will think they're a slut.
if you were ready.. its perfectly okay.
if you werent, just tell your boyfriend you need to wait a while before doing it again.

as for your best friend...
if she keeps secrets and will keep it,
theres no problem why you shouldnt tell her.
she is your best friend, right?
it just might be a little better if you ask your boyfriend if you can tell her..
just incase she slips...

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