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so i liked this guy(he will be called A)over the summer A told me he liked me and he would always say really sweet things (we never really talked on the phone all we did was txt) well one night A ask for some pics of my boobs so i give him the pics after he tlks me into it and just bout every night he asked for pics so i gave him the pic. he said how he wouldnt show anyone well when school starts i found out that he did show people. to make a long story short i still liked him after that and he knew it(we also messed around twcie after i found out bout the pics n stuff) so i think i am over him now. so i was talking to his friend (i will call him B) B asked for pics n i gave hime some after he talked me into it.i really like B alot and he said that we sould be special friends (like friends wit benifits)i really wanna tell B that i want a relationship cuz im tired of getting hurt but i dont wanna sound corny bout it u kno..if anyome has advice please give me some!!!

Okay, let me start off by saying.... you are NOT a whore! An immature guy tricked you into profanity for his sexual desires that shouldn't be fulfilled. But what guys like him think is that women are here to keep their sexual fantasies alive and we have to live up to their expectations. NONE of those guys (A or B) deserve you! In the long run, could you really picture yourself falling in love with a guy you met through his friend asking to see pictures of your boobs? No. I doubt anyone could. I think he needs to clean up his act and gets his shit together before he's ready for any kind of REAL relationship. Sorry if I sound rude, but a relationship with one of those guys is going to ruin your life if you go further than "messing around" with them. TONS OF STDs out there like Herpes, AIDES etc. and there are no cures. But I'm sure you already know that ;) Guys can't expect us to be perfect goddesses for their "fun & games". We don't all have long legs, curvy and flat stomachs, huge boobs, and big lips because they want us to. And the little imperfections are what make us beautiful. Picture this:
You like him.
You like him right NOW.
You have sex with him.
You get an STD that you have to live with the rest of your life because that guy probably did the same with other girls and it was nothing personal with any of them including you.
You get pregnant.
Your baby inherits the STD.
You can't go out with your friends on a Saturday night because you have to take care of the baby.
You have to put the baby up for adoption. How sad would that be?
Immensely depressing. Better than abortion though!
And then you meet a great guy and have to tell him you had a kid before. Not fun. But you SHOULD feel a bit sluttish, yeah. Like columnists before me said, don't do it again. Imagine after this you meet a nice guy, and he hears about half nude pics. What would happen next?
Now I'm getting out of hand I know. I'm just telling you the consequences for your actions. So bottom Line: Don't date EITHER of those guys.
I think you get my point now :)

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(Rating: 5) thanks alot.. you r rite i dont need them
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