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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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okay so my friend is really mad at me for something that was even my fault, but anyways thats besides the point.
when this girl is mad at you, she can be sooo mean. and i mean, really really mean. and i want to be like "whatever shes mad at me i dont care", but if she's being mean, i know its going to get to me. does anyone have any words of advice i can think about when i see her? like...idk anything. =[
wow, i was in that same exact situation until about two days ago with my wonderful, um, friend.
except, i was the one mad at her & her & her retarded self got mad at me for that. makes no sense, right?
me & three of my other friends just finally had enough. we tried to work it out with her & this is what we said:
"look, we haven't done anything to you, so chill out. you don't want to be our friend & we don't want to be yours, so just back off. we don't care what you say to us, because half of the time we don't give a shit & the other half, it's either pathetic or just doesn't make sense."
of course, OUR friend has to be a little jerk about it & didn't back off. if your friend does that, just let it go because she obviously doesn't have a life if she has to keep harassing you guys. if it gets too bad though, just go to the counselor.
(Rating: 5) thankss.