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I'm 18 and about to enter my sophomore year of college. Feel free to ask me questions about anything- I'll try to help in the best way possible! :)

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Every day after school, I get on the computer. I talk to this guy that I like. (He can only stay on the computer until 5:30 PM.) Before I met him, I would work out every day at 4. Reccently, I've been starting working out later, like at 4:30. Whenever I tell him I have to go, he always says, "Don't leave me." or "I want you to stay!" I really want to stay and talk to him, but I know I'll be sorry if I don't work out. Do you think I'm right to sign off at 4:30? I like him, and I like to exercise, I really don't want to give up either. (Unfortunately, we do NOT live in the same state so "hanging out" is not an option. And the only time I can talk to him is between 3:30 and 4:30.) Am I just wasting my time?

I feel bad about leaving him at 4:30, because I really do want to stay. But I like it because it leaves him in suspense and makes him want to talk to me more. Any opinions?

It is a waste of time, I'd honestly like to work out instead of talking to somebody I know that I'm most likely not going to meet. If you've never even met this guy, he could be a creep, and sure there are some really good computer whizzes out there and they can make it seem like they're real. You can talk to him a bit, but don't fall for him.

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It's okay, I don't go around answering people's questions saying that they're slutty 12 year olds, and I didn't call you that either. You just asked if it was a waste of time, and I said it was. Idk where you got that I called you a slutty myspace whore, but I didn't and I don't think that. =)

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(Rating: 4) Rating Changed by a lvl 2 mod. She never suggested anything of the such and your feedback was uncalled for.
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I can't believe you'd even sugguest that. You people are way too paranoid on the internet, and honestly, I am a computer whiz and I've had over 30 fake myspaces for fake boyfriends so the next time you answer someones question, don't go around assuming everyones a slutty little 12 year old that posts pictures of them naked on Myspace.

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