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Alright, so my boyfriend has to move in about a month, and he got really upset when he found out. I asked him why and he said the only reason was because he was afraid of losing me. He started to act really sweet and always make me feel like I was his number one priority, like when we first started dating. Now he found out he isn't moving that far, so he is almost acting like his old self, having a sort of 'I don't care' attitude. I know he loves me because he was so concerned about leaving me, but how do I get him to realize that even if he doesn't go that far there is still that chance of losing me? I mean, I just want him to act that way all the time not just when there are threats against our relationship.
Well, this happened to me a couple days ago.. You need to warn him a couple times, just be honest with him. Sometimes guys are so oblivious to something right in their face and they need to be told. If and when you do warn him, if he doesnt listen then mention that you two need a break and see how he reacts. Just the feeling seriously losing you for good should make him realize. Believe me, i just did this not too long ago...So, i would try it!
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(Rating: 5) Aw thanks, love. I'll definitely see if it works!