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okey here's the deal. 15/f and i have never made out. i really really REALLY want to, but i'm afraid what the boy's reaction will be. example: what if i'm a bad kisser? what will he think? is that going to affect the way he thinks of me? i'm just really afraid of what he will say. I could either be a good kisser or a bad kisser and i just don't know. people are starting to call me prude now and i obviously am but i want to change that. help me? (link)
First of all, ignore the people calling you names- screw them, they can do what they want but should leave you to do the same, end of.

Second of all the best way you're going to be a good kisser (and I know everyone says this but it's really true) is to be with a person you genuinely like and are comfortable with and to just relax. I have had some pretty amazing and some pretty horrendous kisses and I can honestly say that even the best 'techniques' do absolutely nothing if the person means nothing to you.

The only general tips are fresh breath, not too much tongue or saliva (noone wants to feel they've gone 10 rounds with a seaurchin....trust me) and to just laugh about it if something goes wrong.

Oh and to enjoy it!


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