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So i was wondering, if you GUYS could answer, what turns you on more a girl with a body type like kiera knightley/sasha cohen or a girl with a body type thats maybe 10-20 lbs overweight. I respect everyone's oppinons but i feel self-consciounce because my body type is more of the kiera knightley/sasha cohen type...and i have no confidence from my body cause i feel that people look at me as anorexic, but then when i see girls overweight in a bikini they have all the confidence in the world and i'm kinda of like the wallflower in that type of situation so would you rather date a girl wiht a body type like kiera knightleys/sasha cohens or someone thats like 10-20 lbs overweight and why?? (please don't say someehting like loooks don't matter) this is a situation if you had the choice. thanks

I think the real problem here isn't about whether guys would want to date a chubby or skinny looking girl. I think the real problem is, like you said, your own self conscious feelings about your body and your inability to be content with yourself. Don't let a guys choice of girls(whether fat or skinny) determine whether you feel good or bad about your body or let it cause you things that are unhealthy to your body.

personally though, I'd have neither. I don't want an overweight girl or an underweight girl. But I'd choose a girl 10 lbs overweight who's happier with herself than a girl who is 10 lbs underweight and suffering from low self esteem.

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