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Q: Ok this question is going to be kind of deep, so here goes. When I was 14 I lose my virginity to my first love. I'm 19 now and married to another man. My first love, Tim, and I have been on and off since I was 14. No matter what we always seem to find a way back to each other. The problem is, I have been married now almost 2 years to this other man. BUT I still find myself thinking (alot) about my first, Tim. I don't know if I am in love with him still, or what. I am so confused. Everytime we bump into one another it's like that spark never left. Please help asap.
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you will always have that one person you will ALWAYS love and have feelings for.
Even if you aren't like; in love with them anymore; you still love them.
It's just how it is with love.
That means that is it true...
The fact that their is a spark still just proves it was true; and you both will always care about each other.
But obviously you were in love enough to marry someone else..
Even if you move on; you dont 100% get over it. And you never forget your first love; or any love for that matter. And the fact that you lost your virginity to him makes it even stronger.
there is nothing wrong with still thinking about Tim; it gets wrong if you ACT on those thoughts.
You are married and cheating is really really bad (which i'm sure you know)
You have nothing to worry about. You still care about him and as time goes on you will think about him less and less. But it will take time...
I hope everything works out.
Ask back if you need it.
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Thanks! I never really thought of it that way :]
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Hey! I'm Em, my friend Tori got one of these, so i decided to check it out, and got OBBESSED! i am always giving my friends advice, so please, ask away, and i will do my best to help!
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Website: Gender: Female Location: NOVA Occupation: Gate Gaurd Age: 14 Member Since: June 4, 2006 Answers: 197 Last Update: July 8, 2007 Visitors: 14500
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