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Hi, my name is Natalie, Nat for short. Well, I asked my friend to ask him if he liked me and he said no because he didn't know me good enough, so then I asked her to ask him if he would like me if he knew me better and she is going to tell him about me. What do you think I should do if he said no again??????????

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P.P.S Thanks!

If he says no again, then why waste your time trying to get him to like you? You need a guy who would like you for who you are, not what you want to be. Believe me, I've been in that situation before and it's not exactly the world's best situation to be in at a time like that. But if you REALLY want him to like you and he wants to know you better try this:
Say 'Hey what's up?" in the hallway, and if you're not sure what to talk about after that just talk about bands, movies, tv shows, etc. Great conversation starters! If you're thinking about maybe asking him out try this:
'Hey a couple of friends and I are going to the movie ____ on Saturday. I thought you might be interested, do you wanna come? You can bring a friend if you want to." I think that's probably the best way to ask him out because going in a group IMMEDIATELY takes the pressure off of having to say no or yes.
However, some guys prefer the mystery. If you wanna be mysterious try this:
Talk to him one day in the hallway & talk about bands, movies, tv shows, etc., eat lunch with him that day, or maybe ask for his screen name. When you're hanging around him though, be yourself! So he can see the real you.
But then the next day don't do any of those things, it will make him wonder, then come back to you. So every other day hang out, then don't hang out etc.
Maybe joke around with him from time to time.
I hope I helped! I know what it feels like to be in your situation, lol.
~ Lauren

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