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My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.

advice

ok so me and my best guy friend are really close. he has a girlfriend who is also a good friend of mine. last summer i started liking my guy friend and then i found out he was going out with my other friend and i was completely devestated yet happy for them because they make a cute couple. they've had their problems but at the moment they're stable in their relationship. when his girlfriend isn't around me and my best guy friend have cuddled at parties and he's smacked my ass and we've had phone sex a couple times. when she is around he'll cuddle with both of us and i know my girl-friend is fine with that because she knows that im not the boyfriend stealing type. but now im worried that i really love my guy friend as more than a friend. we've told each other that we love each other but it was just friendship love. sometimes when we're online he'll treat me like his girlfriend and call me baby and love but as soon as his girlfriend comes online he'll pay more attention to her because i know he really loves her. my problem is that i really feel this need that i have to tell him i love him because i've already made a mistake by not telling him before he had a girlfriend. i don't want him to break up with his girlfriend and go out with me because i could never do that to my friend. what should i do???

i would just tell him how you feel.
there's nothing worse than sitting there trying to figure out if he likes you or not. so just tell him and find out for yourself.
if you don't do it soon, you WILL regret it and you'll be feeling sorry for yourself for a long time.
even if he doesn't love you back, at least you will know how he feels, and you can try to move on..

hope i helped.

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(Rating: 5) i would have told him already if his girlfriend wasn't a friend of mine
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