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"Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place."
I'm an optimist. I can find the beauty in anything. I'm creative. I love spontaneity, peace, & parties. I'm the farthest thing from shy. There's not one person on this earth that I don't care about. I like deep conversations, change, & random acts of kindness. Every emotion I feel is ten times as strong as yours. I have alot of empathy for other people. I'm real open minded & liberal. All I want to do is make at least one person's life a little easier. :D
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One of my so called best friends
- I dont want to be friends with her anymore.
I'm sick of her always talking as us as a "we" and that "we suck" "we are stupid"
because i dont like downtalking myself.
she can, but not about me.
dont tell me to telll her not to talk bad about herself either becauase this isnt the point.
SHE loves drama and stupid crap like that,
so she will do anythign to cause it.
she plays the victim all the time.
I'm sick of it, how she always thinks shes right.
What do I do?
i used to have a so called best friend like that too. she is OBSESSED with drama! she made up shit about my friends, talked about me, started rumors, everything you can think of.
if the girl you're talking about has done anything similar to that, get the hell away from her. she's one of those people who once she's pissed at you -- she's gonna make your life like hell & make up anything she can to turn people against you.
as a matter of fact .. rather she's done something like that or not, if she loves drama like you say she does -- she'll end up doing that sooner or later. the best way to avoid this, is NEVER tell her anything bad about ANYONE behind their back & never tell ANYONE anything bad about HER behind HER back.
you don't need to be around her. trust me -- and i know from experience -- your life will be a whole lot happier without her, which you've already figured out. don't be rude & randomly call her or go up to her & start cussing her out no matter how badly you think she deserves it.
calmly talk to her about it instead of just ending the friendship right then & there without TRYING to solve the problem. now if you've already tried doing that, you just need to slowly stop hanging out with her & she'll eventually get the hint hopefull & leave you alone.
good luck!
(Rating: 5) thank you so MUCH.