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Hello :) My name is Jess and I'm 15 years old. I live in England and think it's pretty cool (apart from the weather!). I am really interested in Architecture and photography at the moment, and I hope to study Architecture at university. My friends and I have been through a lot recently which varies a lot so I hope I can really understand what most of you are going through. I definitely go for what I can when you ask a question, I just delve right in the deep end and tell you how it is. No babbling for ages, but straight down to the point. Don't be affraid to ask me anything, I'm here to help, not bite. :) x
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Ok well this alittle long but I just want to write everything down so hopefully I would feel better. Ok so i'm a feshman now in highschool. When I meet my ex I was in the 6th grade. It was like love at first sight seriously. I couldn't stop thinking about him. We went out and I ended up braking up with him because my friend liked him also. So when I started 8th grade I spoke 2 him again and we ended up going out. He told me all these sweet things and I just love him so much.we lasted for 10 months and then he broke up with me for no reason. Then he wanted to try things again but I can't becuase I'm afraid of loving him more then I do. My friend goes to his school and she told me that he flirts a lot with girls and that I don't deserve him I deserve someone better.but I can't forget about him. Its like my heart is attached to him I feel so depressed its like I can't move on. he sends me text messages sometimes telling me that he loves me but I'm just afraid. What should I do?. Should I forget about him if so what are the best ways?. But I love him so much. I jsut don't see my life without him. Please help thanks!
Hi,
To me you have 2 options:
1: You forget about him. You can do this by not replying to his texts or/and say 'just don't text me these things, we are friends, NO MORE' (that is if he sends you texts that are sweet or a little firlty) just try and forget about him, because he is at a different school to you and just stick around with your real friends, weather they are boys or girls.
2: You go out with him. You could go out with him because you love him, but you must like the personality of the person, it isn't about if they are fit hot or sexy ect (and i know you didn't say/ask about that in the question but you need to know that there is more to looks). If you were to go out with him again then i would get your friend (that goes to the same school) to make sure he isn't flirting too much with other girls (a little is OK but just not too much) also, if he goes out with someone else at the same time or flirts too much then you will need her to tell him off because you would be his girlfriend.
Now...This is ALL down to you, you need to make YOUR desion..not ME.... YOU.
Don't hesitate to ask me for more advice-on anything at all.
Good Luck!!
Love
Jess xxxxxxxxx
P.S. Please keep me posted! I would love to hear what happens! xxx
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Thankyou so much for your advice!
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